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So for example, start off by teasing her for a few minutes, not too long...
And THEN, when she starts to SHOW INTEREST in any of dozens of ways, for example, she starts to become really friendly, or she starts to touch you, or she starts telling you how much she has in common with you, or she starts trying to impress you, you can then have a more *real* conversation like you are used to- but don't let it be a boring conversation. Being THE MAN is about making it clear you have value. But if you go *non-stop* it actually is counter-productive because it looks like you either REALLY don't give a DAMN about her, in which case she feels hopeless, or it can even make you look psycho or desperate as if you are hiding behind a mask of over-the-top behavior. |
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And then she had that look on her face that said: OK, THIS GUY KNOWS WHERE IT’S AT.
When it comes to success with women, there are THREE KEYS far, far more important than all the rest. I don't care what system is out there, how complex and sophisticated they seem to be, they all rely on these THREE KEYS. MASSIVE SELF-ESTEEM. EMOTIONAL STRENGTH. DOMINANCE. |
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What you HAVE done though is told her A HELL OF A LOT about your SELF. That you will kiss up on demand.
I’m not saying that a woman will never sometimes honestly feel insecure, and need a little ego boost from you. But if you are willing to constantly give her ego boosts for NOTHING in return, you basically are saying she is worth more than you. And most times, women are PLAYING when they do this with you, ESPECIALLY when you FIRST meet them. Same thing with the wallet situation. She’s not asking can you help her out, she’s really saying “Kiss my butt”. Again, same thing with woman who was just approached - if she was not attractive, she’d be GLAD you approached and not ask you so many qualifying questions. |
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Why does all this happen?
Let me tell you a bit about a guy named Abraham Maslow. He spoke about something called the “hierarchy of needs”. What that means is that as human beings, are needs work like a pyramid. At the bottom, are the foundation needs- food and shelter. Without these needs being fulfilled, we cannot even ACTIVATE the desire for any other needs. But, once the need for food and shelter has been SATISFIED, we then AUTOMATICALLY activate the NEXT higher level need, such as sex. And once THAT need is fulfilled, we then automatically trigger the desire for the next higher need, such as social contact, prestige, etc. Well, when it comes to most attractive women, they already HAVE so many needs fulfilled, that they are SPOILED and so demand MORE. |
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